Our household saw first hand just how traumatic perimenopause can be.
My wife went from being our rock for 18 years to completely coming unglued over the span of a few months.
The advice of her many doctors only made things significantly worse.
In fact, half of the suffering she went through was a result of the medications they prescribed.
Here's the standard reply from the medical community.
"Here's your Lexapro, Blood Pressure meds, and Sleeping pills".
I won't get into the roller coaster we were put on but it all culminated in 3 days without sleep, yet another ER visit and a bad anti-nausea drug that interacted with her Lexapro to nearly sent her into a psychotic break. Read her nightmare story here
We're only now getting over the anger.
We had to learn on our own, eventually finding a naturopath who actually looked to get to the root of what's going on.
Even with her, there are things we've learned more in-depth and that's just the way things are now.
You have to be your own advocate in today's healthcare.
In highsight...and believe me...there's a debris field of hindsight in 2017, it's all so simple.
It boils down to three things:
Hormones
Nutrition and nutrients
CBD
We'll explore these three based on everything we found.
Also, try to find a good doctor who knows her stuff.
Unlike my wife's OBGyn who's recommendation??
A full hysterectomy!!
I kid you not.
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Otherwise, prepare to be enthralled by the change that is perimenopause.
We promise it will be easy.
Easier than waking up with night sweats and racing hearts for NO reason!!
We only have 4 years (average length of perimenopause).
Okay...not funny...but if you don't laugh, you'll cry.
What Is Perimenopause
Simply put, perimenopause is a transition of hormone levels!
Yes, we're going from having periods and being able to produce eggs to menopause, where the period ends.
But the "transition" is one of the hormones.
Hormones are so powerful in the body!
Just look at the chaos brought on by the other transition, puberty!
If you're really lucky like my wife, you'll get to have teenagers WHILE going through perimenopause.
Not on our worst enemies!
Anyway, the three key hormones in flux are:
Progesterone
Estrogen
Testosterone (to a lesser extent)
This change is really what drives the train and also the symptoms.
We'll get into them later.
This transition, which can last an average of 4 years ends when you have had no period for 12 consecutive months.
The problem is that there can be some really nasty symptoms.
Let's take a look at those.
What Are The Symptoms Of Perimenopause
Interestingly, we found that women don't really talk to each other about perimenopause or what they went through.
Mothers don't tell daughters.
It's crazy!
Only after my wife basically dropped out for half a year (people thought she had cancer) and we told people what happened, did their stories start to roll out.
There are lots of women suffering out there...in silence!
The common symptoms are:
Hot flashes
Stronger PMS symptoms
Fatique
Anxiety
Depression
Loss of sex drive
Irregular periods
Sleep disruptions
Mood swings
The possible symptoms and severity are as varied as the women that have them.
There are genetic impacts (COMT, MTHFR, etc)
There are obviously lifestyle impacts (exercise, diet, medical issues, etc)
At the root of most of these changes is a hormonal shift.
We'll get into that below.
What Is The Average Age Of Perimenopause
The average age to start perimenopause is in the mid-'40s.
That being said, women are entering perimenopause at an earlier and earlier age.
Similar to what we're seeing with puberty.
Female hormones actually start to decrease in our mid 30's but the early perimenopause speaks to something else.
The sea of hormone-mimicking and disrupting chemicals that our bodies are inundated with.
Evolutions move really slowly and the change in both perimenopause AND puberty speaks to something environmental.
Again, perimenopause is a transition primarily of hormones so let's really get into that.
Hormones And Perimenopause
As a baseline, a woman should get her hormone panel done annually...
And starting early!!
To find a baseline.
Ideally in her early to mid-'30s if possible.
Basically, when you're feeling great!
Establish what those levels are.
Also, make sure to get the full panel!
There are three estrogens...not just one!
The Dutch Test is the gold standard.
Unfortunately, you'll probably have to push your OBGyn to run the full panel (and to run hormones at all!)
My wife and I had to learn the hard way just how important hormones are in the body.
We'll start with Progesterone
Progesterone is intimately tied into SO many systems in the body.
Forget about the whole fertility need...how about just feeling great!